After the Abusive Relationship - Psychological Healing Insights For Domestic Violence Survivors

"Nothing has meaning other than the meaning we"projection."
give it." You may have heard this before or someApplication of Insight in Daily Life
variation of it.When I would go through all the self-protection
The essence of this statement is "what we see is"cloak-and-dagger" routine, I used to get angry with
that which we project." You see we can't see thatmyself and still to this day if I see even the slightest
which didn't at one point reside within.remnants of it, the ordeal actually sickens me. Why?
Background Rationale for the InsightBecause of the meaning I give all this behavior and
Deepak Chopra use to site the following research,the feelings associated with it...that being I was a
which says it so nicely. There was a group of cats"battered woman." I'm "protecting myself from the
who where placed, from birth, in a room withpotential onslaught of another."
horizontal lines covering the walls ...all four walls of thisYet, when I take an article that is on my MAC and
room. The cats sensory neurons assimilated horizontalemail it to myself so I may pick it up on my PC
lines. Period.where I do all of my web design, I don't get that
Subsequent to this development, the cats weresickish, angry, pathetic feeling.
placed in another room in which there where chairsOh yea, it might be a hassle. But it's how I've learned
situated about. And the cats walked right into theto adapt to spyware, adaware and computer viruses.
legs of the chairs. They couldn't see the vertical linesI made a decision over a year ago that I would
as this neurosensory path had not been establishedseparate my work product from the Internet.
within them.And my mindset is occasionally: this is a hassle, but
We see that which is already within us. That's all wenever that "yuckie" feeling--even though I'm
can see. The reason we see what we see is"protecting myself from the potential onslaught of
because it is indeed within!another."
If the meaning we give something truly originatesBottom Line Best Nugget of Wisdom
from within, our experience will drive the way weNothing has meaning other than the meaning we give
process the world, how we take it in....the meaningit. Think about it. Now the best part of this insight is
we give it. This is the essence of "psychologicalthat we get to choose our thoughts.