Women of Domestic Violence - Three Reasons Why She May Stay

In some form or another, many of us have beenmaintain the lifestyle they have had, up to that point.
touched by domestic violence. It may be thatYes, up to that point, their partner was in control of
someone we know is, or was a victim of it, or, wethe money.
ourselves were a victim of it.Harm To Her
Although there are many cases which proves that aHe may have threatened to harm her, or even
small percentage of men are abused by theirworse, he may have threatened to kill her and up to
spouses, or the person with whom, they are in athat point, he would have done things, which
relationship with, in majority of the cases, women aresuggested that he meant what he said.
often the victims. Additionally, because all of theSomeone may have point out that by staying, he
cases of this crime are not recorded, althoughwould have easy access to doing just this, therefore,
society is aware of them, the numbers will be largershe should leave. However, she may be convinced
for both men and women.that although he is abusing her, he would not escalate
As society struggles with this seemingly unceasingif she stays within the situation with him.
terror, we often wonder why women who are inThreatened To Harm Or Keep The Children
such relationships, stays in them. Well, the followingMany women of this mistreatment will confess that
are five reasons that are put forth as to why theyduring their pregnancy with their batterer's child or
remain.children, they would have sustained some of the
Financially Dependentworst treatment of the abuse by his hand.
Society has placed us in three financial classes andPregnancy does not cause the ham to cease, in fact,
there are rich, middle class and poor and we will findit may cause it to escalate.
women suffering from domestic violence in all threeTherefore, seeing that this was the case during such
classes. Nevertheless, as would be expected, thea delicate time in the child and the woman's life, she
percentage varies in each group.would be convinced that he would harm the child if
However, due to their financial dependence on thehe is given the opportunity.
other person, they are afraid of not having enoughAdditionally, if he do not threatened to hurt the
money to take care of themselves and their children,child(ren), he may state that she will never see them
if indeed there are children.again, if she leaves, because he will file for sole
Yes, they may not have worked for many years or,custody.
they may not be working for enough money to