| Not all relationships are full of love or even trying to | | | | that part. But, you make no progress in making |
| fix the relationship. How many couples out there are | | | | changes to better the situation for yourself. You |
| out in public with smiles on and speaking with one | | | | continue to go through your many travels in life with |
| another and when you are at home, you barely look | | | | a smile on your face when there is pain in your heart. |
| at each other? There's abusive speech, shoving, | | | | In between your feelings of distress, your mate |
| pushing, lying, cheating and sneaking around to name | | | | gives you a shine of light here and there. You hold |
| only a few. | | | | out thinking maybe there's hope when really your |
| We naturally because of our human pride and not | | | | two hearts no longer match. |
| wanting people to pry know how to hide grief on our | | | | You can't seem to let go of those thoughts of |
| faces. Outside people can't see the sadness that | | | | yesterday when you were happy to be in love. You |
| exists behind those eyes. Others cannot see how | | | | were happy to be with that person. Now the sound |
| mentally and physically drained you are. It is so | | | | of your voice is irritating and so is theirs to you. You |
| unfortunate that you won't talk or seek help. Actually | | | | wonder does the word, I do, mean I won't love you |
| you shun help and avoid talking. Even making those | | | | or I won't try. You are looking for an answer still |
| you may choose to speak with swear to secrecy. | | | | without talking it out with anyone. All your thoughts |
| This has been proven to alter moods, bring up feeling | | | | and inner feelings are still kept built up inside only |
| of distress and anger. This is continually watered by | | | | shared by you. |
| hurtful continued talk, and the biggest is the lines of | | | | The problem is this is a form of abuse and we have |
| communication are terminated. | | | | to know the signs. This occurs when the dominate |
| This often leads to depression. Long periods of | | | | one in the relationship, through emotional or physical |
| unhappiness, losing interest, not able to cope in | | | | abuse creates feeling of fear or alter the way you |
| situations you used to handle, feelings of restless and | | | | would normally have lived your life. Trust your gut |
| agitated and even difficulty getting to sleep or | | | | feeling, if you think you are, then know you are! |
| sleeping to much. | | | | What do you do? Seek Help!! I can't express the |
| Some are left to wonder, is it time to move on. | | | | importance of finding someone to take some of your |
| They learn their lives have changed. Their mates | | | | load off. Someone to help sort your feelings out and |
| partners wants and needs only suit themselves. They | | | | can assist with getting you the help you need. Go to |
| see it's not their love nor help their mate want or | | | | your place of worship and tell someone. |
| cares for. Those dreams of love are only left as a | | | | Here is a website that asks thought provoking |
| dream. The inspiration of wanting to go places with | | | | questions to ask yourself if you are being abused. |
| this person, they thought only the two of them | | | | why not just take a chance and see how you would |
| shared has all but disseminated. The main key in their | | | | answer any of these questions. |
| relationship seems lost. | | | | Philadelphia and other states has organizations willing |
| You look in the mirror and that once vivacious face | | | | to help, here are some links from Philadelphia. Please |
| now has a build up of pain. There is little laughter and | | | | find you state and they have the same help. There |
| many days and nights of pain. You cry as you pray | | | | are many excellent organizations with caring and |
| for relief. You think to yourself if you could rewrite | | | | understanding people waiting to help counsel |
| the script of your life you definitely would take out | | | | individuals and or couples. |