What You Must Know When Seeking Help For Domestic Abuse

attered Women’s Movement and Clinicalthe bequest of their perpetrators. And over the
Psychology are as far apart as the North and Southyears, actually decades, they became the enemies of
Pole. Yet, many people outside of these circlesbattered women.
disciplines believe domestic abuseI have since learned that this is understandably so,
treatment—and advocacy—areespecially for women residing in domestic violence
sub-specialties of the practice of psychology. Not atshelters. It is estimated that roughly 95% of women
all so!going through the abuse shelter system will be
After I fled from the danger I lived in Chicago, I“certified” (i.e. blessed with a
retreated into a life of solace and wrote All But Mypsychiatric diagnosis) by virtue of their navigating the
Soul: Abuse Beyond Control. Creating that publicationmental health care system—while in route to
was the most amazing experience of mysafety—as a survivor of domestic violence.
life—right up there with the birth of a child. ItThis truly disturbed me, as a practicing psychologist
was my fourth child.and domestic abuse survivor. Even more disturbing
With the enthusiasm of a child, I approachedwas the fact that I could find little to no domestic
individuals in the domestic violence arena, eager toviolence curricula offered in psychological training.
share what I had learned and produced in theIn no way am I suggesting that one not seek the
manuscript. Initially, I was not received well andservices of domestic abuse advocacy; to the
couldn’t understand why, until an individualcontrary. I strongly believe in the work of domestic
from the inner circle of the Batteredabuse advocates. However, I recognize that when
Women’s Movement shared the inside politicsutilizing domestic abuse advocacy, one must be
with me.mindful of the importance of also securing the
“You will have a hard time breaking into thisexpertise of a mental health professional, authentically
line of work," she said, "because you are aknowledgeable in domestic violence.
psychologist.” Funny thing is I thought thisThe front line treatment for domestic violence and
was my asset, until she helped me realized it was mythe actual practice of professional psychology are
liability among battered women.truly as far apart as the automotive industry and the
She explained that historically the psychologists werepractice of dentistry. I vowed to commit myself to
used in re-victimizing survivors of domestic abuse athelping bridge this huge knowledge and service gap.