| If you, as the Father, are hit with an Ex Parte | | | | issued against you, you were not present. Unless you |
| Restraining Order it can knock you off your feet | | | | know exactly what was said at the hearing you are |
| fast. Your first inclination might be to panic and then | | | | only going on what others remember or by what the |
| to give in to anything and everything your ex wants. | | | | hostile side wants you to think was said. Many times, |
| But a word to the wise: DON'T DO IT! There are | | | | things that were said at these hearings are actually |
| ways you can fight back, and here are some of the | | | | inadmissible hearsay and can be shot down upon |
| basics that can help you get started. | | | | appeal. You have the right to know what was said |
| First off, everything has a Procedural Due Process | | | | and to face those who are accusing you face to |
| that has to be followed even though it may not | | | | face. |
| seem like it. There are things that are, often on | | | | Pursue your legal rights and appeal! Most dads won't |
| purpose, shoved aside and they hope you don't | | | | even bother to do this, but there is no reason not to |
| know what they are. Get your lawyer to make sure | | | | and every reason to make the effort. Your future, |
| the procedures are followed or find out yourself | | | | reputation and your relationship with your children are |
| what needs to be done. | | | | on all on the line. Don't throw them away in a |
| The next step is to get a transcript of the hearing. | | | | moment of panic. |
| Most likely, if this type of restraining order was | | | | |