| You don't get the full gist of it in the beginning of the | | | | comprehending why something like that would them |
| relationship. And as far as your significant other is | | | | off. |
| concerned you are not supposed to. If you did than | | | | 2. Post Rage |
| the chances of you still being in the relationship would | | | | Your significant other has cooled off. Everything |
| drop considerably. | | | | appears to be back to normal but you can tell from |
| So they went about sweeping you off of your feet | | | | their body language they are still peeved. Hours or |
| and did their best to hide their true nature. It worked | | | | even days later they still have not gotten over it. |
| because you fell in love with them and decided to | | | | You make an effort to talk about it but that just |
| make a go of things. | | | | sets them off again. There also does not seem to be |
| But you cannot shake the thought that everything is | | | | any self reflection or remorse. In their opinion, they |
| not what it appears and that includes your significant | | | | are right and anybody who cannot see that is blind or |
| other. At times you can feel the tension but you are | | | | just plain ignorant. As time goes on their feelings |
| hard pressed to explain why it hangs in the air. | | | | toward whatever set them off start to harden even |
| Are you in an abusive relationship but just don't know | | | | more. |
| it yet? There are signs that may be pointing in that | | | | 3. Waiting For the Storm Again |
| direction. | | | | How does their rage make you feel? Do you brush it |
| 1. Their Rage | | | | off as one of those things that you are prepared to |
| We all get angry but when you significant other loses | | | | handle if it happens again or do you feel yourself |
| it they really lose it. There are periods during their | | | | whether intentional or not walking on egg shells? If it |
| ranting and raving where they seem totally out of | | | | makes you afraid to the point that you don't feel |
| control. Besides what they wind up getting angry | | | | comfortable expressing yourself openly then there is |
| about is so trivial in nature that you have a hard time | | | | a problem out there which could get a lot worse. |