The Early Warning Signs of Emotional and Verbal Abuse

With the constant bombardment of bad news storieslater a relationship does their true character come
in the media today, it is not surprised people areout and by this time it is harder to get away from
experiencing high levels of stress. There is a sayingthe relationship.
that when stress you take it out on the ones youSo you have heard about behaviors that should be
love most. It is at times like this that both verbal andcause for a concern but seen that too often this can
emotional abuse maybe on the rise, and even worse,be too late. You need to be able to identifier the
an increase in domestic violence.behaviors that are harder for someone to mask. Its
The risk of being caught in an abusive relationship hasabout seeing their true self.
never been higher especially in young people. WhenDoes your partner never take responsibility and
young people think they fall in love, become toalways blame someone else? Does your partner
scared to move on and end up being stuck withresent the success of anyone else? Does your
someone who mistreats them. The horrific thing herepartner think they have a god given right to be
is that you start thinking it is acceptable to beentitled to everything? Does your partner have to
treated this way and defend your partner.feel superior in the relationship?
So how can you tell when meeting someone newHow petting can your partner be? Do they use
what are the potential signs that this person maysarcasm to put you down? Are they deceitful in their
have emotional issues? Are they anger a lot, sparkingactions? How jealous do they get and finally, do they
off on people for no reason? Do they try to startalways true to rush everything they do?
controlling everything you do, getting reallyAny of these behaviors should be a warning to you
possessive of you, and suspicious if you don't tellabout the esteem of this person being low and
them everything you do?having emotional issues in your relationship.
The unfortunate thing here is that people who knowYou must take control of your life and your
they have issues here are very good at putting on arelationships. Embrace these types of behaviors at
front and hiding their flaws to start with. It is onlyyour own peril.