| Domestic violence is like a disease that you refuse to | | | | of patience to endure the hardship brought by your |
| get rid of. The inflicted damage by your spouse, | | | | situation. |
| either physical or mental, is obvious, but you keep | | | | It is difficult to get away from domestic violence, but |
| finding was on rationalizing the actions of your | | | | one surefire way to prevent violence from being |
| partners. You may be telling people that his abusive | | | | repeated in the household is this: leave. If your |
| behavior is not indicative of his real self and they you | | | | partner does not care about your well-being and |
| triggered the violence to occur. | | | | keeps on abusing you, then you should just get |
| Truly, domestic violence completely changes the | | | | yourself to a safe spot. Make the necessary |
| complexion of your marriage and the dynamics of | | | | preparation by setting out which place you will stay, |
| your relationship. From a loving and assertive spouse, | | | | save your money on a bank account that your |
| you have become a scared and submissive partner | | | | partner would not be able to access, and, if possible, |
| who obeys the every whim of his or her spouse just | | | | bring your children with you in order to prevent more |
| to avoid further abuse. Ironically, the fact that you | | | | violence from happening. |
| condone this behavior proves that you are letting | | | | The distance away from your spouse should trigger |
| domestic abuse take control of your decisions and | | | | two things: your spouse would realize the errors of |
| life. | | | | his ways and come back running to you, or you could |
| However, the worst effect of an abusive relationship | | | | decide what's right for yourself and your children and |
| is to your children. Once your children see you being | | | | whether or not it feels right not to have your |
| hurt by your spouse in any shape your form, they | | | | partner around. The purpose of leaving is to let you |
| will adopt the behavior of their parents. For instance, | | | | breathe and experience life without domestic |
| a boy will adopt the violent tendencies of his father | | | | violence, which will what all married people should |
| who does the same things to her wife, while a girl will | | | | have - a healthy relationship. |
| become submissive and meek in her later life once | | | | If you decide to come back to your partner, then |
| they keep seeing their mother suffer the abuse. | | | | counseling and professional help is required in order to |
| Divorce may be the most logical choice, but if you | | | | secure your well-being from more hurt and rectify |
| have all the intention to save your marriage for the | | | | the abuse that happened before. |
| sake of the children, then you will be demanded lots | | | | |