Stopping the Cycle - Domestic Violence, Gangs, and Other Forms of Abuse

Unfortunately, violence is part of the history ofand reduce the emotional impact of trauma of
humankind. War, genocide, and terrorism have leftviolence.
their mark worldwide. There is not a country immuneThe time for a working partnership between
to acts of violence, large and small. We are plaguedindividuals and their communities is now, and gathering
with media descriptions of horrific acts amongstreliable information is paramount to this endeavor.
nations and peoples. When we turn to our ownConsulting experts and reading books and
communities, we see domestic violence, schoolnewsletters written by professionals who have
shootings, child abuse, and gang violence. Statisticsthoroughly researched abuse and violence is a sure
show that violence is on the rise and we need toway to gain both a "big picture" understanding of the
begin to understand why and, moreover, what weproblem, as well as to find real-world solutions. For
can do to prevent violent outbreaks in ourexample, families and community leaders should be
communities. Believing violence will not enter our ownable to recognize the warning signs of a violent
backyard is not the proactive way to think. Educatingpersonality, the impact that addiction and alcoholism
ourselves and asking the difficult questions are wayshave on children, and even why kids become bullies.
to begin understanding how we, as a nation and asInformation to Seek
individuals, can help fight the battle against violence.Look for information from researchers who
Gang and Domestic Violenceunderstand and can identify the key childhood and
Gang violence has taken over some communities andfamily risk factors that cause young people to grow
is quickly infiltrating others. Gangs draw young peopleup into violent adults. Topics can cover a broad range
from all walks of life, regardless of socio-economicof information, from how to keep kids from joining
background, race, or ethnic group. Similarly, domesticgangs to guidance in helping families with difficult
violence is widespread and knows no boundaries. Notneeds. They might even include stress management
only does domestic violence affect the victim, butand relaxation techniques that can help those at risk
the entire family can be traumatized as well.solve their problems, change their behavior, and
Working Togetherchannel their emotions to a constructive use.
Educators, social workers, counselors, healthcareThe research has been done. Books on the "tough"
professionals, law enforcement officers, and parentssubjects are out there, can easily be read and are
must work together to help identify children who areeven more easily shared. Whether it's a counselor
at risk. Studies have shown that the child who wasrecommending a book to a victim of domestic
once the victim can easily cross over into the adultviolence or a parent sharing a book with a teen on
who victimizes. Breaking the cycle of abuse isgang violence, the information is invaluable. Learning,
paramount, as is healing the psychological woundsunderstanding, and prevention are the keys to
inflicted upon innocent children. The social andwinning this battle against violence. Start your reading
personal impact of abuse runs deep. Identification,today.
intervention, and treatment can help build coping skills