| If your ex girlfriend has hooked up with another guy | | | | careful of the guy she is with. He could be a |
| that turns out to be abusive to her what can you | | | | dangerous person to deal with because someone |
| do? If you truly care for her safety, then you should | | | | else is trying to take control from him. Abusive |
| be doing what you can to get her out of it. Especially | | | | people can be very jealous and controlling, anyone |
| if it is a potential life threatening situation, you do not | | | | interfering can be the enemy. |
| want to leave her stranded. It should not matter at | | | | You're ex girlfriends self esteem may be damaged so |
| this point why the two of you are not together | | | | you need to let her know that she can get out of |
| now, help her out. | | | | her situation if she lets you help. Unfortunately you |
| Now, if you have wanted to get back together with | | | | may find that she does not want anybody's help. She |
| her, this may be your opportunity. Helping her shows | | | | may feel she can handle it on her own or thinks that |
| that you do care about her and it may shed good | | | | things will get better. Things will not get better; |
| light on you. If you were not abusive to her at all she | | | | chances are he will be more abusive in the future. |
| may see that she was in a better situation with you. | | | | The best you can do if she wants to stay is assure |
| If you successfully get her out, you may be a hero in | | | | her that you are there for her. It may be hard to do |
| her eyes. | | | | but you at least tried. If you do get her out, you |
| If you are trying to get her back, don't make helping | | | | may get your ex girlfriend back and feel good about |
| her look like that is your motive, really help her out | | | | having potentially saved her life. |
| and she will see you care. You also need to be | | | | |