Law of Attraction and Emotional Abuse: Why Self Esteem Matters in Dating

Have you revealed the real you to your mate?chips away from verbal attacks. Suddenly, you
Sometimes the person you show to your mate is aforgot the person you were before you entered the
mask. The mask says that you are confident. Behindrelationship.
the mask, tells the real story. You have low selfEmotional abuse carries scars on your soul. Research
esteem and fear rejection.shows that the damage caused by emotional or
What happens? The Law of Attraction kicks in. Youverbal abuse is equal to physical abuse. In order to
attract to you what you believe about yourself.stop abuse, it's critical to look at the root of the
Your soul knows how you feel about yourself. Soproblem.
often, we want to be swept off our feet as we seeI had a self esteem problem. I was attracted to my
on television. We crave to hear the words soul mate.ex-husband because of his outgoing personality.The
When I got married, I wanted the same thing.need in myself to filla hole of low self esteem, blinded
Little did I know,my soul attraction led to abuse.me to overlook red flagswhile dating.
Soul Mate is defined as a strong magneticaffinity toIt's easy to become attracted to the wrong person
another person.for what we need to fill in ourselves.
Ask yourself this question about your relationship.We falsely fill this hole looking outside of ourselves. It
What is that affinity based on?doesn't work.
With emotional abuse, low self esteem is theToday, be courageous and look at your self esteem.
common denominator.What connection do you see between your self
At first, you think that you've found your soul mate.esteem and how you are being treated in your
Theperson who finally understands you. As time goesrelationship?
on, the part ofyou that you gave to your partnerWhen you improve your self esteem, you will attract
gets stepped on. Little by little, your self esteemthe love you truly desire.