Help! My Spouse Hates Their Job!

When anybody hates his or her job it doesn't makeYour spouse needs to give some thought to their
for a happy camper at home. They are not anatural skills and abilities. Get them to make a list of
pleasure to live with. (to say the least) They comeall the skills they have acquired over the years (and
home tired, grumpy, irritable and depressed. They candon't underestimate any volunteer work). Sit down
hardly be expected to put on a happy face thewith them and help them (if they want you to).
minute they walk in the door, as much as they mightWhich of these skills and abilities does your spouse
like to.enjoy using?
But worse still, its horrible watching someone youHas your spouse thought about transferring some of
care for go through that experience day after day.these skills into a whole different occupation?
It's soul-destroying stuff for both parties!What types of interests or hobbies does your
No wonder you are saying AAAAARGH!!!! My Spousespouse have? What were they naturally good at, at
Hates their job!!school? Which subjects did they enjoy?
What can I do?There may be some clues in this information that
How to help a spouse who is unhappy at his job (orcould start your spouse thinking about different
hers)?options for work.
Relax, all hope is not lost!They may find it beneficial to work with a career
Maybe part of the reason your spouse feels thatcoach who can help them tease out the ideas and
way is that they have come to a point in their liveshelp them find a job that is a good fit for them, so
when they are wondering "Do I really want to bethat they come home energised and happy at the
doing this for the rest of my life?"end of the day.
That could relate to the actual job or it could relateThen we won't hear you crying out.. My spouse
to the work environment they are in.hates their Job!
I'm going to assume it's the actual job.