Healing From Emotional Abuse - The Memory is in the Muscle

The memory is in the muscle. We hear people vividlywhere you normally feel things. Chances are the
taste remnants of the feelings surrounding old traumaexperiencing of this memory will be magnified here.
when faced with a trigger of the context in whichIn relation to this bodily felt sense, you can engage
that original trauma was experienced. It's truly asan innocent inquiry that has the potential for the
though the memory is in the muscle.memory to let go of you, and thereby lose its hold
We know this phenomenon to be characteristic ofon your experience in the moment.
post-traumatic stress. What's unclear for many isFor example, you may ask yourself 4 questions from
how the emotional memory remains dormant in thethe Work of Byron Katie:
psyche and in the tissue over months, years and1) Is it true? (Is my perception true?)
decades.2) Can I really know it to be true?
It is as though all of the sensory neurons of the3) How do I react when I embrace this thought?
traumatized memory remain in tack. And once4) How would I be without this thought?
re-tasted, they carry much of the cognitiveThen turn this thought around.....
components associated with that feeling state.To enhance the success of the procedure, let your
There are a number of therapies designed toattention be filled with breath and stay with that until
disentangle the memory on the neuro-sensory level.respiration relaxes the physiology and grounds your
One very practical and cost-effective way ofmental emotional state.
accomplishing the diffusion of the affective/physicalIf you walk into past trauma that remains dormant in
and cognitive flood of such trauma is to groundyour muscular memory, this is something you can
oneself at its initial onset and recast the experiencebring into check. And over time, you will be pleasantly
to be commensurate with one's current surround.surprised at your ability to regain your current
This is easier than it sounds. In the face of the flood,balanced demeanor of internal harmony.
let your attention go inward to the place in the body