| Marriage is a bonding of two people who vowed to | | | | have other useful capabilities that you can share to |
| love each other for the rest of their lives, that | | | | the world that parents cannot acquire. The world |
| nothing can separate them even the hurting | | | | needs someone like you, who have all the time to |
| turbulence. Not capable to have children can be one | | | | dedicate to help others. All of us have a unique |
| of them. This is because the thought that a child is | | | | purpose in this planet and just waiting to be |
| the main reason why we work hard and a family is | | | | cultivated. |
| not complete without children. But reality bites, not all | | | | Enjoy each other. If you will look at the brighter side |
| of us are gifted with this talent, and it is the hurting | | | | of it, you will realize that you can enjoy each other |
| truth we must face. If you are one of them, you | | | | for the rest of your lives. Not all couples have |
| might as well pause for a while and ponder the | | | | enough time for each other, especially if they have a |
| following: | | | | lot of children. Imagine that you can do anything you |
| No finger pointing. No matter who is the unlucky one, | | | | want without worrying about other responsibilities. A |
| never put your blame. Acceptance is hard, but you | | | | quite home does not mean it has a lonely family. |
| must face reality. Nobody is perfect, and not capable | | | | Enjoyment has different faces, and having children is |
| of having a child is not a sin. If things would be the | | | | just one of them. |
| other way around, you would not want to be blame | | | | Never give up. Call it a miracle or whatever you |
| anyway. If you are the unlucky one, it would not help | | | | want, but there are gifts that are being sent a little |
| if you feel guilty and depressed. There are a lot of | | | | bit late. But you never know, it will be just right on |
| better things to do if you will just look around. | | | | time. Pray hard, no matter what religion you belong. |
| Accept the challenge. Leaving your spouse will mean | | | | Faith can move mountains and you know that. If you |
| that you are breaking your promise to love each | | | | will be impatient, you might be blaming yourself later |
| other for better or worst. A child is not the only | | | | for a wrong decision. For the record, there are a lot |
| reason to be a marriage successful. This is the time | | | | of couples who had children in their late years of |
| to prove how much you love each other. Do not be | | | | marriage. |
| afraid that no one will take care of you when you | | | | A quite home does not mean that it is always |
| grow old. This is the obligation of your spouse, not | | | | peaceful. Having peace of mind means you are happy |
| your children. | | | | in what you have, and accepting that there are |
| Utilize other gifts. You may have hidden talents that | | | | things that are not meant for you. |
| you have not discovered yet, so find them. You may | | | | |