| Filing false restraining orders as a divorce tactic has | | | | otherwise have to work HARD for. Many |
| become more & more prevalent as divorce has | | | | unscrupulous divorce attorneys will advise their |
| become more of a cottage industry. That means if | | | | female clients to file a restraining order as a way to |
| you are a man going through a messy divorce your | | | | gain advantage in or win their cases. |
| chances of being hit with a restraining order have | | | | Another reason this may happen is that your spouse |
| dramatically increased, whether or not your behavior | | | | is angry about the divorce, feeling vengeful, & |
| is deserving of such a charge. Learn why this is | | | | wants to control & manipulate you as a result of |
| happening & what you can do if you are among | | | | her anger. Relationship issues such as divorce create |
| the increasing number of men being served with false | | | | an emotionally charged atmosphere & people |
| restraining orders. | | | | often behave in unacceptable ways when they are |
| First let us examine why filing false restraining orders | | | | emotionally unstable. |
| is becoming so prevalent in divorce cases. Because of | | | | Regardless of the underlying situation, if you are |
| the relatively small amount of men who abuse or | | | | accused in this situation it is YOUR responsibility to |
| mistreat their spouses, our legal system is often | | | | prove your innocence if you are to regain your |
| manipulated in the favor of women. To protect | | | | reputation & the ability to see your kids. This is |
| women from these abusive men, restraining order | | | | no easy task because as stated before, the laws are |
| law has been written to place the burden of proof | | | | written in the accuser's favor. Any lawyer you hire is |
| on the accused, leaving the accuser free from | | | | likely part of the Divorce Industry, & they are |
| recourse. This is where the problem lies. | | | | likely to put THEIR best interests & livelihood |
| Let's be clear about this-if a man is truly abusive to | | | | ahead of yours. |
| his spouse, the order should be filed & that jerk | | | | If you are to be successful, it is CRUCIAL that you |
| should be prosecuted to the fullest extent of the | | | | educate yourself & arm yourself with |
| law. | | | | knowledge of the laws that apply to your case. |
| But because restraining order law places the burden | | | | Violating a restraining order is a criminal manner that |
| of proof on the ACCUSED, filing false restraining | | | | will result in fines AND jail time. The road to clearing |
| orders becomes a way for divorce attorneys to gain | | | | your name is filled with pitfalls. Any number of |
| advantage for their female clients, getting them | | | | mistakes or false moves will land you in JAIL. You will |
| immediate child custody, higher alimony payments, | | | | need to understand what the law will & will not |
| & other concessions the attorney would | | | | allow if you are to come out on top. |