| Falling in love - someday it will happen to you. You will | | | | Sharon's boyfriend was a heroine smoking cult boy |
| find yourself suddenly falling in love and it will amaze | | | | with an attitude. He wasn't exactly crazyabout her. |
| you. | | | | But she footed his bill and paid his way to smoking |
| You can't run away from it. Love eventually catches | | | | haven. So he put up with her. |
| up with everyone. It may be sooner orlater. | | | | Sharon, on the other hand, was madly in love. She |
| Whatever the time, however long it takes, you can | | | | saw something in him she hadn't seen anywhereelse. |
| be absolutely sure someday will fallhead over heels in | | | | Her boyfriend, Larry, was broad shouldered, tall, |
| love with someone. | | | | tough, raw, bold, unrelenting, anddaring. He could |
| But that is not the scary part. | | | | stare death in the face and not bart an eyelid. Her |
| The part that scares most people is the fact love | | | | boyfriend was a real man! |
| sometimes tend to be blind - orso it seems. | | | | Sharon was madly in love with Larry and there was |
| The truth is, true love is hard to come by. Real love | | | | no stopping her. Her parents could notunderstand |
| is rare. When you finally findsomething that seems | | | | why their rich and well-breed daughter fell in love |
| like true love, you grab it with both hands. You invest | | | | with a poor heroine smokinggangster. Her friends |
| everythingyou've got in it. Unfortunately, you may | | | | couldn't undertand either. |
| find out months later that it isn't real love. Youhave | | | | Can you feel Sharon's love? Do you understand why |
| been chasing a dream! | | | | her gentle her fell for a hoodlum? |
| That brings us back to the really scary part. Love | | | | Sharon fell in love with a dream - a bold, daring, no |
| tends to be blind. People falling in lovetend to be | | | | nonsense, dare devil guy. He had thelooks and the |
| irrational and illogical. The love emotion takes over. | | | | heart of a lion. She admired that bravery, that manly |
| Thereafter nothing elsematters. | | | | boldness. Soon thatadmiration turned to love. And |
| Why is this scary? | | | | there was no stopping her. |
| The answer is simple. Love can be destructive. Love, | | | | However, she's on the wrong road. |
| blind love, can ruin your life. | | | | True love is not based on physical attraction. Physical |
| Yes, some kind of love is blind love. This kind of love | | | | attraction eventually fails as peopleget older and age. |
| is infatuation. | | | | What counts most is spiritual virtues - your lover's |
| True love or real love, is constructive and upbuilding. | | | | personality. |
| True love is | | | | A heroine smoking gangster will eventually get into |
| Realistic | | | | trouble and land himself in jail. Acultist gangster takes |
| Compassionate | | | | delight in beating people up and formenting trouble. |
| Considerate | | | | Sooner or later,if they get married, she may become |
| Unselfish | | | | a battered wife. |
| Practical and down-to-earth | | | | Do you get the point? |
| Blind love or infatuation is unrealistic, selfish, and | | | | Infatuation is blind, physical, destructive. True love is |
| destructive. | | | | clear-sighted, upbuilding,refreshing. |
| When falling in love, ask yourself what kind of love | | | | True love, real love, is based on realistic expectations |
| you are falling into. Is it true love orinfatuation? Is | | | | and facts. It is selfless and worksfor the good of her |
| your love based on unselfish and realistic | | | | partner. Infatuation, on the other hand, doesn't care |
| expectations or on a fantasy? | | | | about reality. Itfocuses on the physical and immediate |
| Consider an example of how blind love, infatuation, | | | | gain. |
| can be. | | | | Evaluate your feelings properly before continuing with |
| Sharon was from a decent and wealthy home. She | | | | that love relationship. |
| was an undergraduate who had everything | | | | Relationships based on true love lasts forever. |
| shewanted. She was astoundingly beauty and | | | | Relationships based on infatuation areusually |
| well-trained and cultured. Understandly, suitors camein | | | | temporary and momentary. That is the very reason |
| droves. | | | | why some marriages last two weeks,some seven |
| Her father's wealth poured her way so she was rich | | | | days and still others, a lifetime. |
| in the accepted sense of the word. Thesuitors asking | | | | The difference is true love. Real love is true and lasts |
| her hand in marriage were just as rich. Many had an | | | | forever. |
| enviable social status. | | | | Thinking of falling in love? |
| However, Sharon just wasn't interested. Marriage | | | | Make sure it is real love. Evaluate your lovers |
| wasn't in her books yet. And when she decidesto get | | | | potentials in relation to your desire most -what is |
| married, she would marry the man of her dreams. So | | | | known and proven to that make relationships last. |
| she said. | | | | Hey, fall in love the right way. It's your life. It's your |
| Eventually, Sharon fell in love. Unfortunately, her lover | | | | future. It's your happiness atstake. |
| was a rude shock to everyoneincluding her parents. | | | | |