Domestic Violence and Death - Will Recent Event and Documentary Alert More People?

The untimely death of a young college student wasget yourself and your children out of the house and
recently found murdered in her off campusfind someone you trust to stay with so you are not
apartment. Her boyfriend has admitted to banging herleft alone. If you are afraid your abuser may follow
head against the wall. This case is not unusual. Theyou when you go out, be sure to have someone go
National Domestic Violence Hotline reports that one inwith you, and always carry some type "non-lethal"
four people will be a "victim of" or see someone fallself defense product such as pepper spray, stun gun
"victim of" domestic violence.or taser. Be prepared to use it immediately; don't
On June 1, PBS is presenting "Telling Amy's Story".give the abuser time to try to talk to you if
The story details the murder of Amy Homan McGeeapproached. Pepper spray is the best choice since it
whose husband shot her at point blank range in frontcan be used at a distance and can leave the attacker
of her children and her parents. This horrific crimeunable to see or breath well for up to forty minutes,
took place in State College, PA, November of 2001.giving you time to get away and get help.
Hotline President,Sherry Cates, hopes that the recentMost victims of domestic violence are afraid of
high profile case and the documentary will alert moreseeking help due to threats made upon their lives or
people to the prevalence of domestic violence.the lives of their children. Quite often they are made
Cates states, "Domestic abuse is when it is one'sto feel it is their fault and they feel ashamed.
intention to hurt or harm another person - whetherRemember no one has the right to abuse another
pinching, pulling them, bear hugging them or attackingperson for any reason. It is important to break the
with their fists, weapons or objects. It can becycle of domestic abuse and get help for yourself or
emotional such as name calling, isolating from familyanyone you know who may be living a life of fear.
and friends, threatening them, using intimidatingThe National Domestic Hotline is available twenty-four
language or threatening to take away their children".hours a day. Call 800-799-7233 for help! They can
If you are someone you know is experiencinggive you advice, support and help you locate safe
domestic violence, seek help, report it to authorities,havens in your area.
let family members and friends know your situation,