Dealing With An Abusive Relationship

"No man is worth your tears. And the one who isto love yourself more and know that you don't
won't make you cry." -Brian Littrelldeserve that hurt. You will get what you tolerate and
Physical and emotional abuse can very easily causethe longer you stay the harder it will be to get out.
deep permanent damage to an individual. What'sDon't let him break you and make you believe that
unfortunate about the situation is that you live in feareverything is your fault. There are so many people
of daily abuse but still stay in the relationship. Youand organizations out there to help you. They help
find yourself covering up the marks, crying throughwomen find a way to get out of the destructive
the hurtful words, and making excuses for him.environments they are currently in. "Statistics states
Abusive relationships originate from anger and himthat on average, more than three women are
establishing a sense of control. Then before youmurdered by their husbands or boyfriends every
know it he controls every cent you make and howday." If you're in a verbally or physically abusive
much you spend. Now you're there feeling completelyrelationship or see your current relationship heading
trapped and dependent on him with no way out.that direction please seek the help you need so you
It can only be his fault for so long though. You havearen't the next victim to add to this statistic. Take
to get yourself out. A verbally abusive relationship iscare of yourself ladies because if he's not willing to
just as bad as a physical one. They both will lead toseek the help he needs for his abusive ways then
psychological issues. So you can't ignore the warningyour only option is to leave. The biggest sign is your
signs. The verbal and emotional abuse will quicklyfriends and family; if they're constantly telling you
escalate to physical harm. All he can do after thesomething doesn't look or feel right about him then
damage is done is say sorry and make promises tothey're probably right. Below I have a domestic
never do it again. Once that point is reached youviolence hotline number and a few websites to read
can't listen to any of those lies because history is justabout the signs of an abusive partner and other
going to repeat itself.ways to get out. My prayers are with you. Be
It doesn't matter how much you love him, you haveBlessed!