Child Custody: Is Hiring A Guardian Ad Litem A Good Idea?

Copyright (c) 2010 Lucille Uttermohlenevidence, too quickly gathered. There is good
Is hiring a guardian ad litem a good idea in a custodyargument for hiring someone to summarize the facts
case? If you had asked me that a year ago, I wouldof a case so that the judge can make a decision
have given a resounding "yes". Now, I've had anwithout listening to hours of often irrelevant, and
experience that have caused me to rethink mymany times transparently self serving testimony.
opinion.However, the judge should not set aside his
The function of a guardian ad litem, or "GAL" is toobligations of fairness and rely on evidence produced
represent the interests of a person with a legalout of his presence by someone who has little
disability in court. Some appointments take place intraining to understand what she should be trying to
divorce cases where the custody of children is atfind out. So, if you are confronted with the choice of
issue. Sometimes, a GAL is selected to determine thehiring a "GAL" to make your custody decision, bear
best interests of an adult incompetent. The idea isthe following tips in mind:
that the "GAL" can investigate the circumstances of1. Find out what procedure he / she will use. To
the case, and presumably advise the court in a waymake a good report, she needs to talk to teachers,
that will let the judge make a final decision in theneighbors, friends, doctors and anyone else who has
best interests of the incapacitated person. In someinformation about the child. She should make a home
cases, that is exactly what happens. However, therevisit with both parents when the child is present. She
seems to be a trend with judges to rely solely onshould talk to the child, not to ask where he / she
what the "GAL" reports, rather than listen to thewants to live, but to learn about his / her likes,
evidence that is presented at the hearing.dislikes, abilities, and communication skills. Sometimes,
I recently had a divorce case where my client hadjust finding out what experiences a child has with
had temporary custody of her children for over aeach of his / her parents can expose a lot of
year. The father continued the final hearing severalinformation about the family's situation..
times. He did not pay child support. We agreed to the2. Find out what training your "GAL" has. If he she
appointment of a "GAL". She made a report, statinghas just been awarded a certificate from a two day
that the children would be better off with theircourse, she isn't really qualified to investigate your
father, because their mother had gotten in a fightsituation. If she has had intense training in a related
with her boyfriend, and one of the kids hadfield, such as family counseling, and has had some
overheard her cussing him out.experience with children's issues, she may be of real
The older of the two children was in kindergarten.assistance in providing the right information to the
The father's visitation had originally been scheduledcourt.
for Monday and Tuesday of each week to3. What will her employment cover? Hopefully, it will
accommodate his work schedule. He made the littlebe her duty to report facts to the court. This is to
girl miss kindergarten to have his visit, even thoughsay she won't make a recommendation. The judge
he testified at the trial that his boss would have beenshould take her report into account, but it should
willing to change his work hours to let his daughternever relieve the court of the duty to consider all of
go to school.the factors before it before making a custody
At the hearing, we disproved most of the things thedecision.
"GAL" had found in the father's favor, and exceptIt is always best if the parents can make child
for the yelling boyfriend, almost everything she hadcustody decisions between themselves. No other
found wrong with the mother. She did not show upperson, no matter how well trained or experienced
to defend her report, although I had written to hercan find out all of the subtile details that constitute a
several times to ask that she make correctionschild's experiences and needs. However, there are
based on documentation I supplied. She did not.parents who can't communicate effectively, and who
The judge awarded child custody to the husband. Inrefuse to deal with each other rationally when it
his order, he did not address the many things we hadcomes to settling the important issues of a divorce.
proved at trial in the mother's favor. He did say theBecause of this, court's have to rely on "guardians ad
father should have to repay the back support he hadlitem and other professionals to obtain some of the
neglected, but besides that, it was as if he had sleptinformation a court should consider in deciding a
through the entire hearing, or had let enough timecontested custody case. Hopefully, the person who is
pass that he had forgotten everything that washired in your case has the training and background to
proved.furnish a fair and honest report to the judge. Before
It is an unfortunate fact in our legal system thatyou are forced to hire a "GAL", though, you should
there are not enough judges to go around. As amake sure.
result, cases are frequently decided on hasty