| Sometimes, parents can amicably work out child | | | | mediation and neither parent can agree, the case will |
| custody issues without having to involve the courts. | | | | go before the judge and the courts will begin the |
| Obviously, in a perfect world this would be the way | | | | process of deciding the custody of the child/children. |
| all custody issues were resolved. However, we don't | | | | The courts will generally look at everything that can |
| live in a perfect world. For this reason child custody | | | | directly affect the child/children. This means that job |
| court is in place. The first step in proceeding with a | | | | stability, home life, and just about every other |
| child custody case is for the parent, who would like | | | | related factor will be examined. The courts main |
| to sue for custody, to file a motion with the court. | | | | focus will be on what situation would benefit the child |
| Once that has been done, notice will be sent to the | | | | the most. If either parent has had a history of |
| other parent and they will be given the chance to | | | | domestic violence or other related charge, this may |
| respond, at which point an initial hearing will be set. | | | | effect the courts ruling. In addition, detrimental |
| Often, a child custody court will order that parents | | | | behaviors such as drug and alcohol abuse on either |
| go before a mediator to discuss ways in which they | | | | parents part will also be an area of consideration. |
| might come to an amicable decision regarding the | | | | Depending on the age of your child, and the state |
| children, prior to setting an actual hearing. Essentially, | | | | you live in, there is also a possibility the judge will |
| this allows the parents the opportunity to discuss, in | | | | want to speak with your child regarding which parent |
| a controlled setting, issues involving the custody of | | | | he/she would like to live with. Once the judge has all |
| their children, without having to go through child | | | | of the facts, he/she will decide which parent custody |
| custody court. If no progress is made during | | | | will be awarded to. |