But He Doesn't Hit Me - Part 1

The tears felt cool against the heat of my face. Myvideos of jail cells was very difficult. This was
internal screams almost drowned out the sound ofintensified by the sounds of the roaches running
the door slamming. The since of safety in his leavingalong the floor when the lights were dimmed. As my
was increasing. Many thoughts rushed in as I laiddaughter and I cried ourselves to sleep in a
there silent as not to wake my sleeping 3 week-oldcompletely lit room, I could feel the baby kicking.
infant that lay beside me.The knock at my room door was startling and gave
Was he serious this time? Was he going to act onme flashbacks of unwelcome thoughts. I was barely
the threat he gave after hitting me in the face?alert when the person behind the door informed me
What did I do THIS time?to attend breakfast. As I sat down on the edge of
As I sat up I noticed the numbing I felt on my facethe bed, I felt the first contraction. Knowing that the
caused by the contact with a pillow being poundedstress of the previous 24 hours had taken their toll
against it. I stepped in front of the bathroom mirroron my body, I had to get to the hospital.
still silent. What to do next?My toddler lay sleeping exhausted from hiding the
When the police arrived, I explained embarrassinglyprevious day as her father threw things at me and
how I was hit multiple times with a pillow. The flashdestroyed the house. The bus ride to the shelter
of the camera did little against the rising sunlightwas a long one in the July heat.
casting in through the window. I could feel the lack ofI knew I had to leave and find somewhere to go
sympathy from the officers as they handed me asince I was going to have my baby that day, but
card with instructions regarding filing a report.where? I had been to my dad's multiple times in the
The baby slept as I sat waiting for the bus. My mindprevious months. I had lost many of friends due to
went back to when I last sat on the same benchmy husband's behavior or my reaction to it. So there
heavy with pregnancy and seeking the safety of aI was; sitting on a bench downtown with my toddler
shelter.in a stroller, contractions 10 minutes apart, and no
I had arrived at the women's shelter the previouswhere to go.
month determined to escape. Out of pride, I could noAs I picked up the pay phone to call my
longer turn to my family and friends. Their assistancemother-in-law, I knew I was going back. I knew I
was appreciated in the past, but after returning towas going to see him again. I knew that I was
my house of horrors time after time had left guiltmaking a mistake.
that was not easily pacified.No one answered in the early morning hours.
Trying to sleep in a room that reminded me of