| If you are having some problems in your relationship | | | | consider finding someone who is willing to better take |
| where your partner is abusing you, whether physically | | | | care of you. It may be difficult for you to make a |
| or emotionally, you may need some abusive | | | | firm decision to leave your relationship, but you need |
| relationship help. Nobody likes being abused and | | | | to weigh your interests against the purpose of being |
| nobody should be abused by anyone for any reason. | | | | in a relationship. Being the abused, your confidence |
| An abusive relationship should not be continued and | | | | might be reduced to almost nothing because of the |
| you would need to find ways to get out of that | | | | false influence from your abuser than you deserve |
| situation. You would need to look after your | | | | the worst. In order to continue making use of you |
| well-being and stop the pain. In a situation where you | | | | and abusing you even more, your partner would do |
| are suffering, you need to look out for your own | | | | anything and everything to stop you from leaving. |
| interests first. However, you still need to decide if | | | | If you still need more reason or motivation to stop |
| getting out of the relationship is the right choice for | | | | your suffering, then think about what you really want |
| you. Some couples have gotten together for a | | | | to do in life. Do you actually want to have a |
| reason and if they were to separate, things may | | | | supportive partner who will encourage you in your |
| worsen. You understand your situation better and if | | | | sporting activities? Do you want to set up your own |
| you know there really is no further meaning to | | | | company with a partner who you intend to become |
| staying with your partner, then consider leaving for | | | | your lover? Or do you just want to live a simple, |
| your own good. | | | | peaceful life as a loving wife? Being in an abusive |
| If you feel that you need someone to rely on, do | | | | relationship makes you merely a sandbag for your |
| look to your family and your trusted friends. | | | | partner to punch and kick. Unlike a sandbag, though, |
| Continuing in an abusive relationship can be life | | | | you can feel the pain and suffer permanent damages |
| threatening and you would need someone who is | | | | that cannot be healed with extra sand and more |
| able to better care for you. Do be wary if your | | | | cloth stitched on. |
| partner suddenly changes attitudes when you | | | | You are a human being, and slavery is not legal in the |
| mention anything about leaving the relationship, | | | | world in modern society. You need to fight for your |
| because it could be a way to keep you on. When it | | | | rights. It would be easy to just look to one side as |
| seems like you would not leave anymore, the abuse | | | | your partner brings the cane down, but the pain will |
| could continue again. | | | | still be felt. You may feel that things are not as |
| You deserve a better life than what you are | | | | simple as breaking up, but are you able to stay on |
| suffering from now. If you find it a need to be with | | | | and endure such abuse for the rest of your life? |
| someone who can share a romantic life with you, do | | | | |