A Woman's Torment - Leaving Abusive Relationships

Sometimes it's not only men that have the subliminaldevastates her with hostility, unfair criticism, and
hopes of playing a hero. Women, too, are compelledemotional rape.
to make sacrificial decisions especially if the matterThough it cannot be defined how love can do magic,
involved is saving a relationship. Even if it wouldin this case a woman trusting everything to what is
mean, letting a man belittle her, even to the extentbeing felt is simply being foolish. Not until a man
of demeaning her worth by often making her liferecognizes the truth about his corrupt character
miserable. Sadly enough, the torment is usually cutwould things improve. Or until the woman, stop
both ways for the women. When leave or not leave,offering crazy sacrifices and get a new life. Yes,
become the cyclical words of objections constantlyleaving abusive relationship is the next best thing to
running through her head. As the sacrifice getsdo when the emotional turmoil becomes unbearable
enormous the more a woman will have the illusion toand the cute, funny, and adorable man that a woman
make everything alright and never would considerhad fallen in love with has transformed into a
leaving abusive relationship an appealing option.domineering, chauvinist, and impossible male partner.
Many have asked for reasonable advice on what toWhat's important here is to recognize the word
do with men that maltreat women but only fewenough. Yes, enough; to learn and outgrow illusions
have managed to cut the knot and break free. Whyand bring into life the essence of a woman. The only
is this so? The answer is quite obvious but it seemsthing scary about leaving abusive relationship is the
so hard for women to unlearn that one-way love andidea of starting all over again. But doesn't it sound
affection cannot build a strong pillar. It's one-way lovebetter to pick up the pieces and feel whole again?
because no man with real love towards a woman