| Does your ex seem to avoid you at any costs? It | | | | Instead, just write positive notes about something |
| may have started by ignoring you in public, then | | | | that reminded you of them or something else that is |
| grew to ignoring and avoiding your phone calls and | | | | very light and nonchalant. |
| now even a simple email will not get through. If it has | | | | Keep them short |
| gotten to this point then you may want to take note | | | | Brevity is key here because if your ex opens your |
| of the seven tips on how to get your ex to respond | | | | email to see the next great American novel they are |
| back to emails. | | | | probably not going to read it. |
| Even though it may seem hopeless, the first steps | | | | However, they will take the time to read a short |
| toward reconciliation are always the best and will get | | | | message and even feel inclined to respond in an equal |
| you somewhere if you keep at it! | | | | manner which is a great start. |
| Stop emailing briefly | | | | Never write when emotional |
| If you have been inundating your ex with emails | | | | Once you push send you cannot get undue a sent |
| there is a good chance that your ex is not even | | | | email, so only write when you have a clear mind |
| bothering to open then anymore before pressing | | | | otherwise you could write something you will |
| delete. | | | | eternally regret. |
| So stop for awhile so that when you send the next | | | | Try using a new email address |
| one they are curious to see what you have to say. | | | | If you think your ex has sent your address to the |
| Send out group emails instead of personal emails | | | | spam box try a different one. |
| It is OK to still leave your ex on your group emails so | | | | They may or may not take a look, but it's worth a |
| that they can see you are continuing to live your life, | | | | chance! |
| and if this means they happen to see some great | | | | Give them something to respond too! |
| accomplishment or project you are working on all the | | | | Get out there and live your life so that when you |
| better! | | | | write them you have something interesting to say. |
| Keep them positive | | | | Your old relationship does not hold much appeal to an |
| Never address the problems of your relationship, | | | | ex, but an entertaining anecdote does and might |
| save these thoughts for personal contact. | | | | even garnish a laugh that gets you chatting again. |